Helping to restore nervous system regulation, make sense of your patterns, and build a life that feels more grounded, connected, and fully your own.
Before coming to the therapy space, I spent nearly two decades in organizational leadership, coaching and developing individuals and teams in a variety of settings. It gave me firsthand insight into burnout, achievement pressure, identity struggles, and the quiet way high-functioning people can sometimes appear successful on the outside while feeling anxious, exhausted, or emotionally stuck on the inside.
Watching that gap between outward success and inward exhaustion up close, again and again (including, if I’m honest, in the mirror some mornings), is what eventually pulled me into counseling. My work today draws on trauma-informed and attachment-based approaches, including EMDR, to help people understand the why behind their patterns and restore a felt sense of regulation and calm in their nervous system. Not just insight, but an actual shift in how safe and settled life feels day to day.
I bring the same direct, grounded presence that shaped my years in leadership into the therapy room, minus the mandatory team-building exercises. My clients are often navigating identity, belonging, relationships, and self-acceptance, and what I hear most is that they want a space where they don’t have to perform, where they can drop the “supposed to” and figure out what’s actually true for them. If we can laugh together along the way, even better. Growth doesn’t have to be humorless.
Therapy with me is a genuine two-person project. You’re the expert on your life, I help guide the process, and together we figure out what’s actually going to help. Here’s some of what I draw on, depending on what you're working through:
We’ll move at whatever pace actually works for you. Some sessions are quiet and reflective. Some get into the body. And some, without either of us really planning it, turn into you laughing at yourself for the first time in a while. Those ones tend to sneak up on you. Wherever we land, the goal is the same: not just understanding the patterns that keep showing up in your life, but actually feeling different because of them.
I work with adults navigating a range of challenges, including:
Healing from past experiences that continue to affect how you feel, think, and relate to others, often through EMDR.
Reducing worry, overwhelm, and the patterns that keep you stuck in fear-based thinking.
Navigating change, including career shifts, relationships, identity, and loss, with clarity and intention.
Understanding patterns in how you connect, protect yourself, pursue closeness, manage conflict, and repair disconnection, whether individually or as a couple.
Exploring who you are and who you want to become, on your own terms.
Addressing persistent low mood, loss of motivation, and the weight that makes daily life feel hard.
Affirming, judgment-free therapy for LGBTQ+ adults, with space to explore identity, relationships, and what authenticity looks like for you.
I believe good therapists never stop learning. As an LPCC, my work is actively supported through ongoing supervision and consultation with two experienced clinicians who specialize in trauma, attachment, and nervous system-informed approaches. For clients, this means you are not only benefiting from my direct care and perspective, but also from the guidance, insight, and support of highly experienced clinicians who help inform and strengthen my work behind the scenes.

Dr. Wildes is a licensed clinical psychologist with more than 20 years of experience in trauma recovery and EMDR. She is an EMDRIA-certified therapist, approved consultant, and trainer with extensive experience supervising and training clinicians. Her trauma-informed approach continues to deepen my work in areas such as nervous system regulation, trauma healing, and EMDR integration.

Chris Watney is an experienced therapist, coach, and practice owner with a background in individual, family, and couples therapy. She brings a thoughtful, grounded perspective informed by years of work in the private practice setting. Her supervision and consultation support my development as a clinician in private practice.
My current rate is $165 for a 50-minute session. I am a private-pay practice and do not bill insurance directly. I can provide a superbill for clients who wish to seek out-of-network reimbursement from their insurance provider.
A limited number of sliding-scale spots are available. Please ask during your consultation.
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